Starring Rosemary Venner |

Although I have been playing at the Bridge Club for over sixty years there will be some players who know little about me. Born in Nelson, I have spent my life here except for time in Christchurch training as a teacher and doing university work, and two years teaching in Tauranga. I love Nelson and my roots here are deep, as my Welsh ancestors arrived on the Thomas Harrison in 1842. I have always been interested in local history and have written several books about Nelson.
I enjoyed my school days spent at the Tasman Street School, Nelson Central and Nelson Girls' College, had lots of fun and made lasting friendships. Friendships were also formed at St John's Methodist Church. I loved our Sunday School anniversaries, tennis club, Easter camps, Church picnics, and singing in the choir. At College I joined the Student Christian Movement and continued with this while in Christchurch, meeting people from other cultures, enjoying retreats at Old Stone House and attending nationwide conferences.
One of my favourite places is the Maitai Valley where our family used to spend part of the Christmas holidays on Tom Elliott's farm. It was also my playground in my teenage years and in later years I played golf at Waahi Taakaro. Another is Rakau. We went by train to Rakau where we stayed in primitive huts and picked raspberries for Mr Christian. I picked enough one year to buy my first watch but a lot of my time was spent swimming, catching tadpoles, birds nesting, riding the horses, and taking photos on my box Brownie. We played lots of card and board games. When my sister married a farmer in Murchison that became a new place to explore and later, I taught there for a few years. For over sixty years I have been going to Golden Bay and at one time owned a bach in Totara Avenue. But I have also explored most of New Zealand and been on several overseas trips.
Music is important to me. I joined the Operatic Society in both Tauranga and Nelson, singing in the chorus or playing the violin or clarinet in the orchestra. I also love my garden, birds and books and trying to help other people achieve their goals.
When I returned from Tauranga in 1960 to start teaching at Nelson College for Girls, I joined the Nelson Golf Club and the Bridge Club. The Bridge Club was then in Mabin House in Nile Street. I was soon hooked on playing bridge, this forever interesting, fascinating and at times frustrating game of cards.
I went on my own to the series of lessons with Mr Green and for a while I played with Pat Butler. After some time, we realised this partnership wasn’t working very well and for some years I then had several different partners. This is not the best if you want to advance your play. When I did get a reliable partner for a year, Norman Knight, my bridge improved.
Norman would come out on his motorbike to my home at Marybank on a Saturday dressed in his black leathers and eager to teach me more. But as always, I had too much preparation and marking to do as a teacher and I didn’t have enough time to devote to learning all the conventions Norman wanted me to learn. We did have some success in tournaments but then Norman left Nelson at the end of the year, not without first teaching me some valuable skills in playing ten-pin bowling.
I looked through my dairies to recall some of my bridge partners and there were many of them: Edith Bailey, Reg Scott, Alan Coburn, Pat Nixon and Jana Bott to mention a few. Comments I made in my dairy for the three nights with Jana were ‘difficult bidding’, ‘traumatic’, and ‘came top!’.
For years I dined out on stories from the Bridge Club. In those days the scoring was done manually. We usually had a drink while we waited for the results and went over the hands together. I learnt early that it was usually not a good idea for spouses to play together and was very glad I could go home
without any further analysis and recriminations about where I had gone wrong. It was bad enough trying to get to sleep as it was with all the if onlys racing though my head.
For many years it was okay to smoke at the table. Mr Hitchlock used to smoke a cigar and I was often distracted from my play watching it get smaller and smaller. He certainly didn’t waste any. Later, smoking was restricted to after the tea break and then banned altogether.
The ‘big guns’ in the Club were Dr Ashley and Dr Collyer. Once Noeleen Greager and I played a set of seven hands against them. Noeleen knew them but I didn’t and I cheerfully put her in to some difficult hands to play. She was a wreck by the end of the 7th hand. On another occasion, I was on lead and played the ten of clubs. Dr Ashley analysed this lead and played his hand accordingly. We took him down and he called the director, demanding that I explain my lead. I told the truth – that I hadn’t a clue what to lead and just chose the ten of clubs at random.
One night I played with my friend Mary Fitzpatrick who was visiting from Christchurch. We had seldom played together. We had been on a long tramp that day and had dined on steak and red wine, too much, at the Rutherford Hotel. We arrived late to the club and slithered into our seats to play the first hand. We played drunkenly, fearlessly and brilliantly and topped the evening with 75%. I have never achieved this score since.
I was asked to join Miss D Clark, Mrs E Bailey and Mrs D Clarke for some private bridge. Perhaps it was Mrs Bailey’s suggestion as I taught with her daughter June Glover, and they decided I must be good as I was a teacher. They were top players and it was obvious after the first night’s play that I was seriously out of my depth. I saved them any embarrassment by making the excuse that I was too busy at work and I wouldn’t be able to play anymore.
In the 1980s I became disillusioned with teaching, retired early, and established Fifeshire Tourist Guides, taking special interest tours. I loved doing this but it was a financial disaster and I had to do relief teaching plus many other jobs such as housecleaning, proofreading, cleaning pollen, Amway and telephone sales, and doing surveys to survive till I got my universal superannuation.
I had had a break from bridge while working out of town and took a refresher course before I rejoined. There were lots of new ideas to absorb, such as 5-card majors and weak twos. Today I play with Helen Greig. One of the best things I ever did was join the Bridge Club. It is a great place to make friends and the game certainly keeps the brain ticking over.
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Last updated : 11th May 2025 04:06 GMT |
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Sita Monaghan |
Sita Monaghan - A Bridge player par excellence

Thank you, Sita, for agreeing to this interview. Sita is known by all for her gracious manners and her smiling welcome at the bridge table. She is always calm and helpful, sending happy opposition on their way, usually having taken a large plus score from them.
I am Sita Monaghan. My Bridge ranking is Open. I love the game of bridge. For me it is a lifesaver.
My bridge beginnings.
I started playing cards as a child at home; Canasta and Last Card. Every weekend we played cards with all the family. My mother loved cards and so do my brothers and sisters. After I met Michael at Otago University, we sailed to England on the Atlantis and a friend of
Michael’s taught us both the basics of bridge. We played every day for four weeks while at sea. Once we arrived in England I started work as a physiotherapist. There was another couple at the practice who also played bridge. So, in the evenings, once a week or so we would play bridge at their place.
A few years later, in 1976 we came back to New Zealand, to Nelson and the first thing I did was look up the bridge club. We both started there but because we didn’t know the etiquette of club bridge, on our first night someone at the table got quite angry and called the director when Michael touched the opponent’s card. That put him off completely and he has never played club bridge again. We played socially for years with friends of ours, the Handiside's who lived in Richmond.
I kept going to the club. I loved the game and I liked the competition. I started on Monday nights with my partner Doug Monks. We didn’t know the rules and it wasn’t until I started playing on Tuesdays that I met my mentor, Tony Hinkley. He taught me the system. He taught me Acol and after that I never looked back.
Why does bridge appeal to me?
It is always a challenge because each hand is so different. No two hands are the same.
Every time we pick up a hand of cards you never know what it is going to end up being. It is a joy to pick up 13 cards, especially when you have a partner who knows your bidding and you can talk to through your system.
Why play bridge?
Bridge is a very social game. You meet so many people and you can play bridge all over the world. I have played in many places and all I need to do when I am overseas is to ring up the bridge club and say that I’d love a game and I haven’t got transport. They will pick me up and drop me home at the end of the evening. That is a great delight. Bridge clubs are very generous.
Bridge Highlights.
A highlight for me was in 2006 when I won the Senior Interprovincial Teams at Congress with Robin Young as my partner and another pair from Christchurch. They gave out trophies then. I was still a Junior and he asked me to play. It was a privilege to play with him. Other highlights were winning the Senior Championship Pairs at Nelson a number of times and becoming a Grandmaster. To become a Grandmaster, you need at least 500 A points and 500 B points. And to get them you need to play and win in a lot of tournaments.
What am I thinking when playing bridge?
It is really important to have a process in your head. If I am declarer the first thing I think about is, what have the opponents bid? That tells me where the points are. Then I look at the lead to see if that helps me. What information can I get from the lead. Then I look at partner’s hand and I think: how many tricks do I need? how many can I get? And, if I haven’t got enough tricks, how can I make those extra tricks? I do it automatically now but you must train yourself to go through those questions. If the opponents have bid, it helps me to work out where I need to finesse and who might have the vital cards I need to find? When they don’t bid, it is much harder to place the cards. It is important to take the time to do this before playing to the first trick.
If I am the defender I always think about the bidding because that tells you where the points are and then I look at partner’s lead and I use the rule of 11. Provided my partner leads 4th highest against NT then subtracting that from eleven tells me how many cards higher than the lead are held in the other three hands. I can work out which card to play.
Bridge Tips for aspiring players.
Play bridge as often as you can. It is like any sport: the more you practice, the better you get.
Try to ask players, better than you for a game at the club.
Make sure you and your partner have a clear system which you discuss
Does playing bridge teach you anything outside the bridge rooms?
Bridge is a numbers game so having to count keeps you active. I have made many friends through bridge. The most fun is to play socially for a small amount of money. The money helped to sharpen our thinking. We would swap partners and talk about the hands and what we could have done. I was very lucky to have Tony as one of my teachers. Thank you, Tony.
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Sita Monaghan - A Bridge player par excellence

Thank you, Sita, for agreeing to this interview. Sita is known by all for her gracious manners and her smiling welcome at the bridge table. She is always calm and helpful, sending happy opposition on their way, usually having taken a large plus score from them. ..........
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Last updated : 11th May 2025 03:53 GMT |
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Carol Minchin - A Bridge Enthusiast |
Carol Minchin - A Bridge Enthusiast
Carol Minchin with her husband Roger
I am Carol Minchin. My bridge ranking is Open. I am a Silver Grandmaster and I am number 74 on the All-Time New Zealand Masterpoint Earners list. I have been playing for 59 years.
My bridge beginnings
My grandmother played many card games with me but not bridge. From quite a young age I had wanted to learn the game but couldn’t find a teacher. I wanted to learn even more when we played 500 in the ski huts and the bridge players always won.
After Roger and I were married we went to live in Invercargill. When we heard about bridge lessons starting at the Invercargill Bridge Club we went along and were hooked. That was in 1964 and we have been playing ever since.
My bridge career
It was slow. For many years we had children and work. We played one night a week at the bridge club and a bit socially. Invercargill only had one tournament a year. The highlight was the annual Otago-Invercargill inter-club. Fourteen pairs plus oysters bused to Dunedin. It was a great learning experience because Otago was by far the stronger club but this changed over the years. It was a three-session event and the evening session dress was long dresses and furs for the women and dinner suits for the men. Roger didn’t have a dinner suit but they allowed him to play in a suit and black bow tie. Imagine if this was the stipulation for an evening session these days.
NZ Congress started about the mid-eighties. We went a few times but it wasn’t until we both retired that we could go regularly. Going to Congress and learning new conventions and playing against stronger players gave our bridge a real boost.
When we started travelling we played bridge as the opportunity arose. We played In France and Switzerland where we used bidding boxes for the first time. The language was never a barrier but at first we were confused with the cards. The king and jack are different to ours. One of the most unusual venues we played in was The Young Chelsea Club in London. It was an old house with the session being played upstairs and downstairs. The tables were at all angles and fitted into nooks and crannies. Sitting north-south just meant staying seated for the session, there were no direction signs. The bar was open all night with mainly large handles being drunk.
The International Gold Coast Congress at Broadbeach, Queensland was a regular event for us for a few years. As well as great bridge it was also a very social holiday. I was always astonished with the number of professionals and clients playing together in the main events. The professionals sometimes could be subtly stinging.
Why does bridge appeal to me?
I like it because it is a game of skill and not just luck. I enjoy the challenge of bidding and playing a hand well. I like the fact that there is always something new to learn. I enjoy talking about and analysing unusual hands with other players. I like following major bridge events and how our top players are performing.
Why play bridge?
The game is challenging and stimulating. It is also very satisfying when one plays a hand well. It is social without the need for small talk. It’s a game where you never stop learning and you can play it lifelong. In NZ we have children to centenarians playing. It can be played anywhere in the world and at almost any time of the day with the development of internet/online bridge.
Bridge Highlights
I have represented Otago-Southland, Canterbury when Nelson was part of that centre and Top of the South in the Inter provincials. It was a real highlight being part of the Top of the South 2010 Senior Team which gave TOPs their first win at the Inter provincials.
I have been privileged to play in the Nelson Howorth Cup team on several occasions. The most memorable was winning the cup back for Nelson after a seventeen-year drought. We were all so proud of ourselves but brought back to earth by an overheard comment from one of our long-standing members “they are all foreigners”.
My highest achievement was winning the NZ Pairs in 1983 with Roger.
Roger and I also won the NZ Senior Pairs in 1999.
What am I thinking when playing bridge?
I don’t play to the first trick too quickly; I plan my play. As declarer I think about the information from the bidding and the opening lead. When playing in NT I count my winners and then decide where I will look for extra tricks. When playing in a suit I count my losers and think about how to get rid of them. When defending I count dummy’s high card points, add them to mine and an estimate of declarers points. With this information, I have a good idea about my partner’s hand.
Bridge Tips for aspiring players
- Don’t just rely on lessons. Buy a good bridge book. There are many on sale for all levels. Read, read and read and practise some of the hands every day. A little bit often will help the information sink in.
- Play with and against better players when you have the opportunity.
- Play in tournaments and go to Congress. There are sections for all levels.
- Never give up. Progress can be fast or slow and there are always plateaus.
Does playing bridge teach you anything outside the bridge rooms?
One learns to work with a partner, bridge is a partnership game. A bridge player must be able to concentrate for long periods, be tolerant, have confidence in one’s ability and be able to do the best with the cards they are dealt. Players must obey the bridge rules and regulations and keep to a code of ethics.
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Carol Minchin - A Bridge Enthusiast
Carol Minchin with her husband Roger
I am Carol Minchin. My bridge ranking is Open. I am a Silver Grandmaster and I am number 74 on the All-Time New Zealand Masterpoint Earners list. ..........
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Last updated : 11th May 2025 03:52 GMT |
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NBS Open Teams 2024 |

Nelson Open Teams Results 9th March 2024
Kevin with the winning teams
1st in Hearts and 1st overall: Adnams Team
Martin Thompson, Justine Thompson, Vicki Adnams & Diane Donnelly
Spades section
1st in Spades & 2nd overall: Guy Team
Steve Gray, Lindsey Guy, Kathryn Brookes & Pamela Dravitzki
2nd in Spades & 3rd overall: Fechney Team

Maurice Carter, Barbara Fechney, Ann Baker & Chris Marshall
3rd in Spades & 4th overall: Turner Team

Doug Elliott, Helen Barker, Chris Turner & Anne Shearer
Hearts section
2nd place: Armstrong Team

Julia Armstrong, Jo Conway, David Cook & Kat Byrne
3rd Place: Robinson Team

Sydney Lo, Miranda Lo, Helen Robinson & Jessica le Bas
Congratulations to the winners! and a big thank you to our sponsor NBS!

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Last updated : 29th Jun 2024 23:57 GMT |
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Michael Green Trophy |
TOPS Michael Green Trophy Results
Played on 5th November in Motueka
Teams from Motueka, Richmond and Nelson competed for the trophy. Players whose ranking is less than Club Master are eligible to enter this annual tournament.
The winning team was Nelson !!!!

Congratulations to those who represented our club!
Team members were:
Front row: Judy McKenzie, Will van Heeswyck, Barbara Hodgson & Tony Adamson
Back row: Hsin Liu, Neil Hinkling, Steven & Jerry Zindel
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Last updated : 6th Mar 2024 12:27 NZDT |
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Nelson Open Teams Results |
Nelson Open Teams Results 27 May 2023
Congratulations to all!
Kevin presents the results...

First in Spades and overall: Team Jacob from Auckland and Tauranga
Tom & Steph Jacob, Murray Wood, & Rachelle Pelkman

Third in Spades and overall: Team Monaghan
Robin Young (Marlborough), Roger & Carol Minchin, & Sita Monaghan

First in Hearts and 8th overall: Team Cook
David Cook, Kat Byrne, Helen Barker, & Anne Shearer

Second in Hearts and 9th overall: Team Owen
Penelope Lloyd, Joan Owen, Sherry Malthus, & Kay Cotton
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Last updated : 9th Dec 2023 11:58 NZDT |
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Top of the South 10A Tournament Results |
Top of the South 10A Tournament Results
played on 28 October in Golden Bay
Congratulations to...

Ruth Allison & Sita Monaghan who came 3rd overall

Richard Brookes & Adrian Abraham who were 1st in Hearts
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Last updated : 9th Dec 2023 11:58 NZDT |
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Micheal Green Trophy Results |
TOPS Michael Green Trophy Results
Played on 5th November in Motueka
Teams from Motueka, Richmond and Nelson competed for the trophy. Players whose ranking is less than Club Master are eligible to enter this annual tournament.
The winning team was Nelson !!!!

Congratulations to those who represented our club!
Team members were:
Front row: Judy McKenzie, Will van Heeswyck, Barbara Hodgson & Tony Adamson
Back row: Hsin Liu, Neil Hinkling, Steven & Jerry Zindel
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Last updated : 9th Dec 2023 11:58 NZDT |
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Intermediate Junior TOPS Competition 2023 |
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Intermediate Junior TOPS Competition 2023
Teams from Westport, Golden Bay, Motueka, Marlborough, Kaikoura, Picton, Richmond and Nelson competed for the Intermediate Junior Cup. This is the junior intermediate combined teams TOPS yearly competition, where the best junior and intermediate players in each club compete over two days.
The trophy is awarded for the combined to score from both teams.
Back row: Mike & Val Fitzsimons, Kat Byrne and Judy Honeybone
Front row: Sydney & Miranda Lo, Christine Wallace and Julia Armstrong
Junior and Intermediate Teams were placed first overall:
Junior Team 1st 
Sydney & Miranda Lo
Christine Wallace & Kat Byrne
Intermediate Team 2nd 
Mike & Val Fitzsimons
Judy Honeybone & Julia Armstrong
A great result from the Nelson Club! Well done to you all.
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Last updated : 9th Dec 2023 11:57 NZDT |
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Howorth Cup |
Howorth Cup
Teams from Westport, Golden Bay, Motueka, Marlborough, Kaikoura, Picton, Richmond and Nelson competed for the Howorth Cup. This is the premier TOPS yearly competition, where the best players in each club compete over two days.
The trophy is awarded for the combined to score from both teams.
The Nelson Club has retained the cup that was played over two days in Marlborough. Congratulations to the winners!

1st Nelson A Team:
Steve Gray, Lindsey Guy, Ruth Allison & Sita Monaghan
3rd Nelson B Team:
Carol Minchin, Jana Bott, Kevin Hill & Wayne McCoy
A great result from the Nelson Club! Well done to you all.
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Last updated : 9th Dec 2023 11:57 NZDT |
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