Better Behaviour At Bridge
Our President. Mike Ash, has completed his series of visits to all Districts.
He has listened to what you have to say, and feels that the Scottish Bridge Union should take some
action to make our events more enjoyable for our members.
One thing we shall do is launch a campaign for Better Behaviour at Bridge.
With our limited resources we cannot fully implement the Zero Tolerance standards imposed by
larger organisations like the ACBL. We must rely on the support of our members and clubs to raise
the standards of acceptable behaviour.
With this letter you will receive a copy of the Better Behaviour Poster, which lists some do’s and
don’ts; also a Power Point poster with this month’s theme, which is ‘Be Nice!’
One perceived reason for falling numbers in our clubs and events is that newcomers are intimidated:
perhaps by unfamiliarity with the demands of a tournament - or could it be by the behaviour of
more experienced players? We should all be familiar with Law 74: Conduct and Etiquette. Let us
each examine our conscience and ask: could we do more to help others enjoy our game?
We plan to concentrate on one aspect of bad or irritating behaviour each month, and hope that you
will all join us in our attempt to Do Better.
Remember - it is often not the words used that offend but the manner in which they are spoken.
Liz McGowan
Chairman, Laws and Ethics Committee
Unacceptable |
Encouraged |
BULLYING: includes all forms of intimidation, such as
loud and aggressive behaviour,
summoning the TD in an unpleasant manner,
hectoring less experienced players,
imposing rulings without consulting the TD or the Laws |
BE KIND: to opponents, partner, the TD…. everybody |
RUDENESS: ignoring opponents;
arguing with them, the TD or partner;
using insulting or offensive language |
REPORT unacceptable behaviour at the time, not later –
we must take a firm stand to stamp it out |
IMPATIENCE: indicating annoyance when an opponent
(or partner) takes time for thought;
demanding attention from the TD when he is otherwise
engaged |
INTRODUCE yourself to others,
and new players to your club and our events |
DILLY-DALLYING: arriving late at the table;
time-wasting between and during deals |
DO YOUR BIT to assist in the smooth running of events |
GRATUITOUS REMARKS: commentary on partner’s
shortcomings, opponents’ ignorance, TD decisions,
unfair point distribution….. |
GIVE something back to the game we all love |
EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS: nobody enjoys these!
Bite your tongue and count to ten |
ENJOY your bridge – and others will enjoy playing with
and against you |